Membership Benefits

“Ritual, presence, and elevated community.”

Xanadu Reserve is a private social club for those who value refined luxury, intentional connection, and the embodied practice of High Protocol.

Within Xanadu Reserve, structure is honored, connection is cultivated, and each gathering reflects our commitment to grace, refinement, and belonging.

Couples

$100 / year

Charter member lifetime rate

Singles

$50 / year

Charter member lifetime rate

Priority Access to Events

Members receive early registration and first right of refusal on all Xanadu Reserve gatherings — High Protocol dinners, Royal Afternoon Teas, Reserve Cocktail parties, and curated social experiences. Most Reserve events are members-only; when select events welcome non-members, Reserve members always receive first priority.

Guest Privileges

Members may bring up to 2 guests to any members-only event — a graceful way to introduce friends to the world of Xanadu Reserve.

Exclusive Reserve Pin

Each member receives an official Xanadu Reserve Pin, worn at all Reserve events as a symbol of belonging and verification of membership. Required for entry.

Digital Resource Access

Members receive access to curated High Protocol materials, including etiquette refreshers, ritual guidance, and event preparation resources.

Member Recognition

Membership includes acknowledgment within our community through anniversary recognition and member spotlights.

Application Process

  1. Complete the application. Complete the application here.
  2. Our Advisory Board reviews each submission and may request an interview or invite you to a meet-and-greet.
  3. Approved applicants receive a membership link, followed by a welcome email once membership is secured.
Step into a shared practice of ritual, presence, and elevated community.
Welcome to Xanadu Reserve.